Without the presumption of innocence, there is a willingness to be ignorant.
“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” – Proverbs 4:7
As the Bible says we perish for a lack of understanding.
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge;…” – Hosea 4:6
Have we forgotten the principle things of God?
You’re not supposed to out live the relationship you have, but you should out grow them as you grow. Meanful relationships evolve as you evolve.
You’ll grow or die.